What to do when you Fail?
Anyone can tell you that “To become successful, you need to pass through many failures”, TRUE!!!
But what to do when you fail is the strategy we never hear about which puts you in the loop of failing- that's why you are not successful.
Today I am going to reveal the secret of what to do when you fail? Pay attention to these 6 things and perform them whenever you fail:
1.Flexible
Most failures are created by yourself because you don't want to change and become flexible with the surroundings.
You think what you are doing is the most right thing in the whole world, but guess what, If your solution does not contain a user's perspective, success will be long gone.
To become flexible, see what you can change in yourself, your way of thinking, your mindset, your vision, your habits, and your actions.
But again this doest come just by reading this post once, you need to study a lot of books and replace your old habits with the new flexible habits to make this modification.
Let me warn you, sometimes it may seem impossible to do something because you are feeling low on yourself. But deep down you know you can do this- so do it and prove yourself to yourself - never let yourself down ever again.
2. Ask for help
When you face a failure, most times you might want to just throw everything and do nothing, I felt the same- there is no shame in it.
But once your mind settles down, now you need to get up and gather all the information, all the tool, and trick to get out of that failure. This is how you convert your failure into success.
- Collect information: I prefer researching it on the internet or asking friends if they know anything about this failure and collect all the information- Never blindly follow someone's imagined solution-it may put you in the worst situation.
- Plan the ways: Since I have all the information about the failure, I know going which might solve it. Now its time to plan your moves toward success.
- ACT now: No matter how great your plan is, that plan won't work by itself you have to get up and act as planned, sometimes improvise as you go.
That's all it takes!!!
3. Remember its importance
If you tend to get easy on failure and let them overcome your success, they will. You need to remember and understand how much this failure and success means to you.
Even when you are taking action you stop when you are at 99 because you think that was all you could do and the next thing you know is someone else did the same thing with extra 1- and scored 100, they succeeded.
Train your mindset to never get tired of trying and putting consistent efforts which will show result but ll you got to do is wait for it!!!
4. Give yourself a break
Taking a break and thinking is the best mindset exercise you will have. Remember, you are taking a break — not leaving it forever- so going back with the big plans- is the plan.
Let people think you have given up, but you must consistently take breaks which reduces pressure and anxiety to see things you couldn’t have seen in the rat race of winning everything.
In break time you are stopping race but not stopping to improve yourself remember that. You might actually need to work more to get yourself ready and then act for 10 seconds to win, which means you never are really stopping!!!
You can do the thinking, planning, and strengthening yourself — these are the horizontal steps toward success. Verticle success anyone can see but horizontal success only you can see.
5. Take time to recover and start over
If you think you don't need time to recover, you are a fool and you are going to try the same thing which failed you in the first place.
Taking time after failure gives you the ability to better yourself, see mistakes you had done, and try things in a different way.
starting all over might sound time taking but it builds the base of your future empire, its important.
6. There are more way to achieve the goal
There is always more than one way to achieve success. You might have planed it in a way you think is the best to achieve your goal.
I prefer to run your plan through an expert person. This will unlock your perspective about seeing things and doing things in the most professional and better way.
Read how to connect with expert people and create a professional network
If you have failed once or twice or many more times, all you need now is a fresh perspective, run it by different expert persons, and see what they think about it if they have some concerns- research if those are real and find solutions.
Never go to a delusional personality, they are just going to imagine and tell you the most impressive way- for which you are going to fall for- the best thing is to avoid these persons.